Category: Dating Body Language

IOI – Indicators of interest in action! Hidden camera stuff.

Here’s an interesting and authentic display of sexual body language in a dating context. It was produced for British television. What I found most interesting is that the girl, when interviewed at the end, had no idea she was flirting and no idea the guy was hot for her. Amazing! He speaks to the fact that women flirt to appease men (and women), which is true, but does not speak to the fact that she appeased one man more than the other – despite the fact that he was far less attractive. She obviously subconsciously knew that the more Alpha man was probably not for her and didn’t want to screw up her chances for a successful long-term relationship! And that’ something to keep in mind, especially for all those PUA’s out there who think that Alpha is the key. When women want more than just sex, they will seek other qualities besides just Alpha. Alpha helps, yes, but it’s not the be-all-end all. Enjoy!

Watch for: “hair flick,” “eye contact,” “preening,” “eye pop (not always sexual),” “body orientation (ventral fronting)” and “toe pointing.”

Body Language Dictionary Launch

We have beta launched our nonverbal dictionary and will accept any input into making it better for our readers. It is completely free to use and catalogs all (most) of the body language signals and the lexicon that goes along with reading people. There are well over 500 terms already, and naturally, with the scope of the topic that likely encompasses over 1,000 terms in my estimation, if peripheral terms are included, it is incomplete. This is primarily why we need outside help to grow the word base as it is a nearly impossible job for just a few people to tackle. However, having said this, as far as we are aware, this dictionary is the most inclusive of terms related to the subject in the world. Correct us if we are wrong, and we’ll just grow to surpass them! 🙂

You can suggest terms in the comments section or e-mail us directly and we’ll add it to our growing list. When you do write us, there’s no need to define the word yourself, unless you are into that sort of thing! So please enjoy the database and the images, and please help us spread the word. We always appreciate it when links to our pages are seeded across the Internet. No doubt, other people will find the information useful too!

Here is a link to the main page of the dictionary, enjoy.

http://www.bodylanguageproject.com/dictionary/