Tag: Body Language

Body Language Crash Video Course

Hey, you don’t like to read, crash this body language course.

Part II (this one is better so I listed it first)

This body language tutorial covers: eye – dilation, eye contact, eyebrow raise, narrowed eyes, strong eye contact, sideways glances, lowered eyebrows, blink rate, eye dart, building initial rapport, eye access cues (eye direction), hands and handshakes (palm up, palm down and even handshake), proper handshake, handshakes and elbow touching, palm display (honesty), palms up gesturing, hand clenching (negative thoughts), wrist holding (self restraint), picking lint, hands folded, palm down authority, pointing (annoying), hand rubbing (receiving), quick and slow rubbing, steeple (confidence/arrogance), proper pointing, hands behind back, hands on hip, thumb language (up, hidden, out), arm crossing language, purse and barriers, leg language, feet point to where we want to go, how to open people with a drink (unlock), feet jiggling (wanting to exit), legs open (dominant), legs closed, stubborn language, ankle crossing, shielding, leg uncrossing for women (what it means), honest smiles, smile reciprocation, false smile, tight lipped smile, open smile, head down smile, laughing and yawning.

Part I

IOI – Indicators of interest in action! Hidden camera stuff.

Here’s an interesting and authentic display of sexual body language in a dating context. It was produced for British television. What I found most interesting is that the girl, when interviewed at the end, had no idea she was flirting and no idea the guy was hot for her. Amazing! He speaks to the fact that women flirt to appease men (and women), which is true, but does not speak to the fact that she appeased one man more than the other – despite the fact that he was far less attractive. She obviously subconsciously knew that the more Alpha man was probably not for her and didn’t want to screw up her chances for a successful long-term relationship! And that’ something to keep in mind, especially for all those PUA’s out there who think that Alpha is the key. When women want more than just sex, they will seek other qualities besides just Alpha. Alpha helps, yes, but it’s not the be-all-end all. Enjoy!

Watch for: “hair flick,” “eye contact,” “preening,” “eye pop (not always sexual),” “body orientation (ventral fronting)” and “toe pointing.”