These legs are interested – note how they are crossed toward rather than away.

These legs are interested – note how they are crossed toward rather than away.

The legs are a great indicator of true thoughts and feelings because they are often free to express themselves unlike the arms that might be busy doing other things. It has been noted in several studies that the amount of movement that the feet undergo while lying significantly increases, and that these movements are below the level of consciousness. It’s fairly easy to monitor our arms and (with limited success), our facial expressions, but it’s something else to monitor a distant part like our feet.

The legs crossed toward something or someone indicates thoughts and shows an attraction in that direction. In other words the legs are propelled in the direction in which we think. Couples that have a strong relationship will cross their legs toward each other, enemies will cross away – context permitting of course. Lovers sitting on a couch together with their legs crossed toward each other, bodies leaning inward, with their arms meeting over the backs of the couch are said to be in a “loving circle.” The leg tap, where the hand rhythmically taps the thigh can be done out of fear or deceit, even out of fear of being caught, uneasiness and even boredom, depending on the remaining set of cues in a cluster and on the particular context by which they occur. What we do below the belt is out of sight and out of mind!

Men can use open legs to show dominance more easily than women.

Men can use open legs to show dominance more easily than women.

Legs uncrossed is a signal of openness, acceptance and signal of being easy going. This is of particular importance as it pertains to women, as it can taken as a sexual signal or invitation, making women appear easy, “loose” or at best crass or improper. Women wishing to appear dominant will find this posture comfortable but in the wrong contect can lead to negative outcomes. Men can have their legs uncrossed to display a signal of dominance and authority which is a welcomed natural signal from men, or it can be used as a signal to appear open. Men in seated positions spread their legs as a dominance display as it puts the genitals out for everyone to see. This is one of the gestures we should imagine nude to understand its full implication.

In a standing position, legs spread at or slightly beyond shoulder width signals dominance in a more acceptable way. In fact, having the legs uncrossed while standing is the most appropriate way to stand since it appears open, accepting and confident. Legs open while standing says we are ready for action unlike legs crossed at the ankles.

Be Sociable, Share!