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<\/a>Cue<\/strong>: Leg Crossing and Leg Crossing Direction.<\/p>\nSynonym(s)<\/strong>: Crossing The Legs, Thigh-Thigh Cross.<\/p>\n Description<\/strong>: A proper sitting posture where one leg crosses over the knee of the other leg.<\/p>\n In One Sentence<\/strong>: Leg crossing is a closed body posture demonstrating the desire to protect privacy.<\/p>\n How To Use it<\/strong>: Women should make it a habit to cross the legs regardless of the type of attire they wear, but especially so if they are wearing short skirts or dresses or are trying to appear feminine. Our current culture affords women the liberty to comport themselves however they see fit, however, this does speak directly toward our values. In other words, if women wish to be perceived as \u201clady-like\u201d and feminine, rather than masculine (the current default), crossing the legs is an apt nonverbal display.<\/p>\n Men also benefit from crossing the legs, much like women. When men cross their legs rather than splay them open, they appear more proper and sophisticated, not to mention respectful.<\/p>\n As always, one must use body language to create the results that are most desired.<\/p>\n Context<\/strong>: a) General, b) Dating.<\/p>\n Verbal Translation<\/strong>: \u201cI\u2019m somewhat reserved so I\u2019m closing off my body and aiming my legs toward someone I like or away from someone I dislike.\u201d<\/p>\n Variant<\/strong>: Sometimes people are not physically able or comfortable crossing their legs in more than one direction or crossing them at all. If a person habitually crosses their legs in one direction, their tendons and muscles will stretch and conform to suite that direction best. This then inhibits them from crossing in another direction because they feel less comfortable doing so. Therefore, we should be careful to watch for adjoining cues, the context, and a person\u2019s baseline before drawing definitive causal conclusions with respect to leg cross direction.<\/p>\n See European Leg Cross<\/a> and\u00a0Figure Four Seating Position (The) or The Ankle-Knee Cross<\/a> and Leg Twine<\/a>.<\/p>\n Cue In Action<\/strong>: a) While the two girls chatted, each had their legs crossed toward each other as if cutting out all others from the conversation. b) Dave and his new girlfriend sat chatting on the sofa when a younger more attractive girl sat down next to Dave. Subconsciously Dave began to lean toward her, shifted his body over and even crossed his legs in her direction rather than toward his girlfriend.<\/p>\n Meaning and\/or Motivation<\/strong>: The legs crossed toward something or someone indicates attraction in that direction. In other words, the legs are propelled in the direction in which we think. Couples that have a strong relationship will usually cross their legs toward each other. Enemies will usually cross away, context permitting of course. Lovers sitting on a couch together with their legs crossed toward each other, bodies leaning inward, with their arms meeting over the back of the couch are said to be in a \u201cloving circle.\u201d<\/p>\n Be cautious about reading the meaning of leg cross with respect to direction as there is no solid evidence that people habitually cross their legs toward or away from people they like and don\u2019t like respectively.<\/p>\n Having the legs crossed is often a signal of a closed attitude as the leg crosses over the mid-point of the body. Compare legs crossed to having the legs opened or legs cross in the figure four posture. Legs open is more open and more dominant. However, women who wear skirts should cross their legs so as not to appear overtly sexual.<\/p>\n Leg crossing is often motivated by the desire to increase comfort and therefore simply a natural posture in a person\u2019s repertoire. However, if a postural change occurs suddenly and due to a particular stimulus, we should pay particular attention. The legs may have been drawn in the direction of the attractive stimulus \u2013 be it a person or event.<\/p>\n Similar to the leg twine, a thigh-thigh cross is a tight version of leg crossing where the thigh is brought up really high and the legs pressed tightly together. This can signal a closed attitude and restrained emotion. It might also signify a desire to pacify by pressing the genitals tightly together. It is more commonly found in women, but particularly salient when done by men. If a bounce is present, it might indicate a desire for pacifying through sexual self-stimulation.<\/p>\n Cue Cluster<\/strong>: When the legs are crossed toward another person expect to see bodies leaning in, shoulders and head turned toward and good eye contact. The opposite is found when the legs are crossed away. If they are not, then we can assume that the leg cross is more due to comfort or that a person is splitting attention between two equally attractive stimulus.<\/p>\n Body Language Category<\/strong>: Adaptors, Amplifier, Barriers, Body cross, Body pointing, Blocking or Shielding, Closed body language, Defensive body language, Idiosyncratic body language, Indicator of interest (IoI), Intention movements, Undivided attention (nonverbal).<\/p>\n Resources: <\/strong><\/p>\n Aiello, J. 1977. A further look at equilibrium theory. Visual interaction as a function of Allen, Jill; Sarah J. Gervais and Jessi L. Smith. Sit Big to Eat Big: The Interaction of Body Posture and Body Concern on Restrained Eating. Psychology of Women Quarterly 2013. 37(3): 325-336. DOI: 10.1177\/0361684313476477pwq.sagepub.com<\/p>\n
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