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<\/a>Cue<\/strong>: Guiding Body Language.<\/p>\nSynonym(s)<\/strong>: Hand To The Lower Back Of Another, Lightly Pushing Another\u2019s Back, Pulling Someone While Shaking Hands, Shaking Hands Pull In Or Out, Moving People Around.<\/p>\n Description<\/strong>: Using a hand to lightly push on another person\u2019s lower back to move them in a desirable position. Pulling someone in while shaking hands.<\/p>\n In One Sentence<\/strong>: Guiding is a way to create dominance by controlling the actions of others.<\/p>\n How To Use it<\/strong>: Guiding is a very powerful power-play. Men can increase their sex appeal by placing their hands on the small of a woman\u2019s back and lightly moving her in the direction of his choosing. The same effect works while dancing where the man is expected to, and benefits from, leading the woman.<\/p>\n Men can also guide women by holding their hand and steering or pulling them with a slight lead. This is a powerful way to demonstrate leadership to women which they usually find sexually appealing as it is a display of dominance and leadership.<\/p>\n Guiding can also be done without placing the hand directly in contact with another person\u2019s back, but rather holding it just off contact.<\/p>\n Men can also guide other men less intimately, by placing an arm over the shoulder and putting weight against them, thus moving them in their chosen direction. The man who is confident enough to control other men by one-directional contact will be perceived as the most dominant.<\/p>\n