{"id":534,"date":"2014-10-21T18:23:43","date_gmt":"2014-10-21T18:23:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/?p=534"},"modified":"2015-06-04T19:35:50","modified_gmt":"2015-06-04T19:35:50","slug":"body-language-of-the-firm-handshake","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/body-language-of-the-firm-handshake\/","title":{"rendered":"Body Language of The Firm Handshake"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Body Language of The Firm Handshake<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/No-pic.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-1286\" alt=\"No pic\" src=\"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/No-pic.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"750\" srcset=\"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/No-pic.jpg 500w, http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/No-pic-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a>Cue<\/strong>: Firm Handshake<\/p>\n<p><strong>Synonym(s)<\/strong>: N\/A<\/p>\n<p><strong>Description<\/strong>: A handshake that is neither too hard, nor too soft.<\/p>\n<p><strong>In One Sentence<\/strong>: A firm handshake is a universal signal of confidence.<\/p>\n<p><strong>How To Use it<\/strong>: A firm handshake should be a default condition for both men and women. Use a firm handshake especially when it is important that you are seen as competent such as in a business setting. When doing the firm handshake, make sure you are not overly aggressive, as firm does not mean that one needs to inflict pain. A proper firm handshake rarely goes unnoticed and is rewarded with a positive impression and the benefits that go along with it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Context<\/strong>: General.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Verbal Translation<\/strong>: \u201cI show my confidence by shaking hands with just the right pressure, not too much to be overbearing and not too little to show weakness.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>Variant<\/strong>: See <a href=\"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/body-language-of-the-country-handshake\/\" target=\"_blank\">Country Handshake (The)<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/body-language-of-the-cold-dead-wet-fish-handshake\/\" target=\"_blank\">Cold Dead Wet Fish Handshake<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/body-language-of-double-gripper-politician-handshake\/\" target=\"_blank\">Double Gripper Politician Handshake or Double Hander (The)<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/body-language-of-short-grabber-handshake-or-finger-grabber-handshake\/\" target=\"_blank\">Short Grabber\/Finger Grabber Handshake<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/body-language-of-the-oddball-handshake\/\" target=\"_blank\">Oddball Handshake<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/body-language-of-palm-up-palm-down-and-palm-even-handshakes\/\" target=\"_blank\">Palm Up, Palm Down and Palm Even Handshakes, Stiff Arm And Thrust Forward Handshake<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/body-language-of-the-death-grip-handshake\/\" target=\"_blank\">Death Grip Handshake<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/body-language-of-wrench-forward-handshake\/\" target=\"_blank\">Wrench Forward Handshake<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/body-language-of-the-undershaker-handshake\/\" target=\"_blank\">Undershaker Handshake<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/body-language-of-the-wrist-hold-handshake-and-the-upper-arm-grip-handshake\/\" target=\"_blank\">Wrist Hold Handshake<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/body-language-of-the-wrist-hold-handshake-and-the-upper-arm-grip-handshake\/\" target=\"_blank\">Wrist Hold Handshake and Upper Arm Grip Handshake<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/body-language-of-the-limp-fish-handshake\/\" target=\"_blank\">Limp Fish Handshake<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/body-language-of-the-teacup-handshake\/\" target=\"_blank\">Teacup Handshake<\/a>,<a href=\"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/the-hidden-meaning-of-the-arm-twister-handshake\/\" target=\"_blank\"> Arm Twister Handshake (The)<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/body-language-of-the-firm-handshake\/\" target=\"_blank\">Firm handshake<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/body-language-of-fist-bumping\/\" target=\"_blank\">Fist Bumping<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cue In Action<\/strong>: He was pleasantly surprised by the new recruit, she had a firm handshake unlike some of the others. This gave him confidence that she\u2019d do a good job.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Meaning and\/or Motivation<\/strong>: This is the best overall handshake as it does not appear overbearing or flaccid and weak. Positive attributes are given people who shake hands with appropriate force. When a handshake is too firm, it signals an overbearing attitude, or masks low confidence except when it is matched by a strong physique which might come from a larger athletic person.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cue Cluster<\/strong>: The firm handshake is a stand-alone cue which has meaning in and of itself, however, we usually see other positive and dominant cues associated with the firm handshake.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Body Language Category<\/strong>: Authoritative body language, Confident body language, Dominant body language, Enthusiasm (nonverbal).<\/p>\n<p><strong>Resources: <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Astr\u00f6m, J ; Thorell, L H ; Holmlund, U ; D&#8217;Elia, G.  Handshaking, personality, and psychopathology in psychiatric patients, a reliability and correlational study.  Perceptual and motor skills 1993, Vol.77(3 Pt 2): 1171-86.<\/p>\n<p>Chaplin William F.; Phillips Jeffrey B; Brown Jonathan D.; Clanton Nancy R.; Stein Jennifer L.; 2000. Handshaking, gender, personality, and first impressions Journal of personality and social psychology. 79(1): 110-117.<\/p>\n<p>Debrot, Anik ; Schoebi, Dominik ; Perrez, Meinrad ; Horn, Andrea B.  Touch as an interpersonal emotion regulation process in couples&#8217; daily lives: the mediating role of psychological intimacy.  Personality &#038; social psychology bulletin. 2013. 9(10): 1373-85.<\/p>\n<p>Dolcos, Sanda ; Sung, Keen ; Argo, Jennifer J ; Flor-Henry, Sophie ; Dolcos, Florin. The power of a handshake: neural correlates of evaluative judgments in observed social interactions. Journal of cognitive neuroscience. 2012 24(12): 2292-305.<\/p>\n<p>Fisher, Jeffrey D.; Marvin Rytting; Richard Heslin. 1976. Hands Touching Hands: Affective and Evaluative Effects of an Interpersonal Touch. Sociometry, 39(4): 416-421. <\/p>\n<p>Frumin, Idan; Ofer Perl; Yaara Endevelt-Shapira; Ami Eisen; Neetai Eshel; Iris Heller; Maya Shemesh; Aharon Ravia; Lee Sela; Anat Arzi and Noam Sobel. A Social Chemosignaling Function for Human Handshaking. eLife 2015. 4:e05154<br \/>\nDOI: http:\/\/dx.doi.org\/10.7554\/eLife.05154.<br \/>\nhttp:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/articles\/shake-hands-share-human-scent-curious-case-hand-sniffing-body-language\/<\/p>\n<p>Fisher, J; Rytting, M and Heslin, R. 1976. Hands touching hands: affective and evaluative effects on interpersonal touch, Sociometry 39: 416\u2013421.<\/p>\n<p>Gueguen, Nicolas. Handshaking and Compliance With a Request \u2013 A Door-to-door Setting. Social Behavior and Personality. 2013. 41(10): 1585-1588.<br \/>\nhttp:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/articles\/handshakes-lead-compliance-study\/<\/p>\n<p>Greenbaum, Paul ; Rosenfeld, Howard. Varieties of touching in greetings: Sequential structure and sex-related differences.  Journal of Nonverbal Behavior. 1980. 5(1): 13-25.<\/p>\n<p>Ghareeb, P.A. ; Bourlai, T. ; Dutton, W. ; McClellan, W.T.  Reducing pathogen transmission in a hospital setting. Handshake verses fist bump: a pilot study. Journal of Hospital Infection. 2013. 85(4): 321-323.<\/p>\n<p>Hiemstra, Kathleen M.  Shake My Hand: Making the Right First Impression in Business With Nonverbal Communications.(Brief Article)(Statistical Data Included).  Business Communication Quarterly. 1999. 62(4): 71.<\/p>\n<p>Lipsitz, Rebecca (2000). &#8220;A Gripping Start.&#8221; In Scientific American (September), p. 32.<\/p>\n<p>Morris, Desmond (1994). Bodytalk: The Meaning of Human Gestures (New York: Crown Publishers).<\/p>\n<p>Stewart, Greg L. ; Dustin, Susan L. ; Barrick, Murray R. ; Darnold, Todd C. Zedeck, Sheldon (editor).  Exploring the Handshake in Employment Interviews.  Journal of Applied Psychology. 2008 93(5): 1139-1146.<\/p>\n<p>Spezialetti, Brian D.  Do&#8217;s and don&#8217;ts for winning the job interview. (laboratory technicians).  Medical Laboratory Observer. 1995. 27(7): 51-53.<\/p>\n<p>Sanda Dolcos; Keen Sung; Jennifer J. Argo; Sophie Flor-Henry and Florin Dolcos. The Power of a Handshake: Neural Correlates of Evaluative Judgments in Observed Social Interactions. Journal of Cognitive Neuroscience. 24; 12: 2292\u20132305.<br \/>\nhttp:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/articles\/handshake-open-body-language-powerful-nonverbal-effect-brain\/<\/p>\n<p>Wesson, David A.  The handshake as non-verbal communication in business. (marketing technique).  Marketing Intelligence &#038; Planning. 1992. 10(9): 61(6).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Body Language of The Firm Handshake Cue: Firm Handshake Synonym(s): N\/A Description: A handshake that is neither too hard, nor too soft. In One Sentence: A firm handshake is a universal signal of confidence. How To Use it: A firm&hellip;<\/p>\n<p class=\"more-link-p\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/body-language-of-the-firm-handshake\/\">Read more &rarr;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[182,67,69,65,90],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-534","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-no-photo","category-authoritative-body-language","category-confident","category-dominant-body-language","category-enthusiasm-nonverbal"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/534","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=534"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/534\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2435,"href":"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/534\/revisions\/2435"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=534"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=534"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/bodylanguageproject.com\/nonverbal-dictionary\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=534"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}